Posted by Dinah on November 11, 2008, at 17:32:56
In reply to Re: And of course, posted by muffled on November 11, 2008, at 10:30:53
Yes, the basket of our relationship is very strong, and I feel comfortable putting all my eggs in it.
But it relies on the larger support of his life and my life and stability in that. Because I know as well as anyone that instability in his life can end our therapy. I'm way more confident of the stability of my life than I am of his.
Of course, what this all means is that I was reading some distress or upset in him last week. I didn't feel that in him so much in him today, so I feel safer. Yet that bothers me. I don't want my feelings of safety to be based on the stability of his life. :)
No point in saying it doesn't. He's as transparent as that lake in Florida is it? The one where you can see down forever?
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