Posted by Dinah on November 8, 2008, at 22:41:37
In reply to a thought..., posted by twinleaf on November 8, 2008, at 22:08:33
Well... I do agree.
And I don't think there's anything I've ever thought that I haven't told him.
But I'd be lying if I said I didn't consider *how* I told him. We're in a long term relationship, and one in which I demand that he be real and authentic. The books may say that I have no responsibility to relationship maintenance, but the reality is that if I want the kind of relationship I want with him, it behooves me to do some of the same relationship building I would do with anyone I want to have a long term relationship with. The money I pay with him entitles me to some things, but not everything I want from him.
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