Posted by sadlittlegirl on October 27, 2008, at 18:38:24
In reply to too curious for my own good, posted by sadlittlegirl on October 26, 2008, at 0:01:52
I saw my T this afternoon. Before I even said anything, she asked me what was wrong. I told her what I did and told her I was scared of how she'd react and I was sorry and I didn't mean to invade her privacy. She told me it was okay, that it was public information and then asked me how I thought she would react. I started crying as I told her that I thought she might be upset with me and make me find a new T. It seemed like she felt bad that I had gotten so worried and at the same time was a little amused at as well.
She told me that I should stop and think about how I will be affected emotionally before I do something. She said that she will tell me if she has any concerns about me respecting boundaries, and said that if I have any questions about her, I can just ask and she'll decide if it's appropriate to answer. We agreed that I need to remember that I can trust her. Before we went on to discuss other things, she asked me if I was feeling better. At the end of the session when I got my hug from her, she told me I'll be okay. During the drive home and when I got home I cried a little just because I was relieved that everything was alright.
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