Posted by rskontos on October 24, 2008, at 10:51:27
In reply to my feelings were hurt today :-(, posted by obsidian on October 23, 2008, at 22:55:28
Sid,
I am truly sorry this happened to you, especially since you do seem to be in deep pain. Your T should have been observant enough to notice this. For me, my t who is my p-doc too, often has calls, he turns the volume down and has never answered it. As far it bothering me, if I was in the state you are, it would annoy me and i would clam up. If he were to end our session, I would most likely send him an email or a voice mail ranting or crying on him . I would vent but that is part of our relationship at this point. Earlier on I would have probably ditched and ran. I would have thought about not going the next time and he would know this.
I don't think mine would do this because he knows I would just not come back. But now I would let him know because he has encouraged me to express myself to him. Especially when I am fragile. So I usually do.
I would encourage you to do so. Even if all you do is email him with this post cut and pasted directly from here to an email and send it to him. I think he needs to know how what he did affected you.
Take care of yourself.
rsk
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