Posted by antigua3 on October 22, 2008, at 10:47:32
In reply to unanswerable questions, posted by happyflower on October 21, 2008, at 1:33:58
hi happyflower, who's not so happy... I feel badly for you and wish I could wave a magic wand to make all our troubles go away. But I can't.
For me, these feelings you describe are all too familiar; feelings I've had for different people in my life. They still come up for one of them when I'm wrestling with the underlying issue that triggers them.
Do you know what triggers you? Is it the new T? and talking about it again? Is there a core issue under these feelings that come from childhood that your new T can help you heal? It isn't just your T, IMO; there's something underneath it and everytime the feelings erupt for me, I know now to search underneath. I haven't solved this yet, and sadly may never, but I get stronger each time I deal w/it and the feelings lessen. Mine all derive from the insane love I had for my father as a little girl, despite what he did.
I hope your new T can help you. I think she can. You try so hard, you make my heart ache for you, for all of us.
antigu
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