Posted by muffled on October 20, 2008, at 18:08:05
In reply to Re: Thanks for sharing... » stellabystarlight, posted by Morgan79 on October 20, 2008, at 17:25:44
Morgan, I too admire your bravery.
This is gonna be very very hard.
Do you have other support persons in your life? You will need them.
If he is that important to you, then I think its that important that you stick to it and make your boundaries VER VERY clear.
Are you going to phone or email? What will you do if you meet in public?
Your behaviour will be different, people will notice. What will you say?
Hard to imagine noone else noticed that there was a relationship btwn you two?!
So you terminated with him as soon as you two realized there was 'more' going on? or did you continue?
Has HE talked to another T about this? This is not so uncommon and to be in the open, he should seek consultation.
Do YOU have a T? Or was he still filling in a T role for you? You should be able to talk about this with someone IRL.
If neither of you can talk about this to anyone, then WHY NOT? what are you hiding?
I am not asking for answers here, just these are things to think about IMHO.
So, hope things settle and whatever will be in the end, will be.
Take care.
Muffled
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