Posted by sassyfrancesca on October 20, 2008, at 8:50:45
In reply to My T story, posted by Morgan79 on October 20, 2008, at 8:23:32
(((Morgan))): Wow....can I ever relate; my t and I are alike in over 30 different ways....we even have the same (rare) eye problem, LOL, LOL
I've been in love with him for over 4 years, and he fights his feelings for me (said he is: "torn and confused, scared and conflicted")
He really shouldn't have told me of his struggle; it makes it worse, but there isn't anything we cannot discuss. He is (acck) married....but then he says: "If I weren't married, I would probably go for it."
He looked for me for an hour at the American Counseling Association's dance in Hawaii---I was surprised that he told me that.
I could write a book at what has transpired between us.
We too love philosophy, poetry (I have a poetry site with almost 15,000 hits), music...he plays the violin.
I guess what we have would be called a "date"---I bring in flowers, something to drink (non-alcoholic), and candles which match the flowers (the libra in me, LOL), and we turn off th lights, listen to music and toast each other.
If I thought some day we could be together I would wait. Being alone (after 31 years of abusive marriage is excruciating).
Hugs, Sassy
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