Posted by lemonaide on October 18, 2008, at 9:15:13
In reply to Re: MAJOR Find - a LONG piece of my STORY (triggers?) » FindingMyDesire, posted by Kath on October 17, 2008, at 23:30:28
Wow! You have figured out something big in my view. It makes so much sense to me. Who would want a special relationship when it included emotional abuse too?
You are doing such a good job, I hope you can work this out in therapy. Let us know how it goes. Your T will be very happy that you share this with her. (((((FMD)))))
Just a personal note, my grandma used to keep journals too, and I remember when my grandpa died, I got to see some of them that talked about when she cared for me as a baby and older. It felt so good to read such nice things about me as a baby, knowing I was loved and cared for. ;-) One cool thing was that she used to eat at this neighborhood restaurant that was around the corner from where i lived, and I used to eat there too even before I knew she did. Now when I eat there I feel like I am there with her. ;-)
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