Posted by Angela2 on October 12, 2008, at 19:05:30
In reply to Re: Feeling better today..., posted by Cal on October 12, 2008, at 9:24:34
> For what its worth, sometimes we cannot see that the other person isn't really emotionally avaliable, but we continue to try and get them because we think that if we accept these people cannot be more then what they are, then that means making a decision that may require we spend some time alone and that can be frightening. Perhaps you need to spend some time alone and begin to see if the "type" of person you are drawn too is really avaliable emotionally or not? A lot of people are drawn to facebook and myspace because they can't do "real" socialising, thats as emotionally available as they can get and the feeling fine blogs perhaps come from only part of the person, the person who hides behind the pc screen whilst in reality their emotional lifes are far from great?
Cal, thanks for your response. Yeah maybe I need to spend some time alone. Like away from socializing on the computer. I've thought about that before actually (what my life would be like if I stopped using the computer as a social outlet). But it's so hard to keep it up. I've tried before. And I lasted like a day or two at the most, lol. I really want my life to be full and rich and with many in real life social contacts. that would be great. I wonder if I'm addicted to the computer. o_O
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