Posted by Cal on October 12, 2008, at 9:24:34
In reply to Re: Feeling better today... » healing928, posted by Angela2 on October 11, 2008, at 13:29:05
For what its worth, sometimes we cannot see that the other person isn't really emotionally avaliable, but we continue to try and get them because we think that if we accept these people cannot be more then what they are, then that means making a decision that may require we spend some time alone and that can be frightening. Perhaps you need to spend some time alone and begin to see if the "type" of person you are drawn too is really avaliable emotionally or not? A lot of people are drawn to facebook and myspace because they can't do "real" socialising, thats as emotionally available as they can get and the feeling fine blogs perhaps come from only part of the person, the person who hides behind the pc screen whilst in reality their emotional lifes are far from great?
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