Posted by Wittgensteinz on October 10, 2008, at 15:22:47
In reply to Can I ask for clarification so that I can follow » lemonaide, posted by FindingMyDesire on October 10, 2008, at 13:32:12
FMD,
I think the long list of disclosures were courtesy of Lemonaide's first T (T1).
She then saw T2 to work through the issues surrounding T1. T2 also disclosed quite liberally by the sounds of it but not in the same way as T1. The problem with T2 was that he had major surgery and since then his memory is not the same and he doesn't remember crucial things already discussed and denies there being a problem.So reluctantly, Lemonaide now has started seeing T3 (this time a woman), who keeps far stricter boundaries and doesn't bring her own life details into the therapy - i.e. very strict about self-disclosure.
Lemonaide will now be seeing her T2 for the last time to end the relationship. He's helped her - she wants to acknowledge that and let him know and end the relationship in the right way.
I hope I explained this correctly - I think this is basically what's happened.
Witti
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