Posted by Dinah on October 8, 2008, at 21:48:29
In reply to Re: Anyone know their medical stuff?, posted by FindingMyDesire on October 7, 2008, at 23:28:10
I don't think I had a dream, actually, about his being pregnant. Or at least I don't remember it. All I remember is that I woke up thinking "X is pregnant!!!" And feeling so sure of it that I assumed I must have had a dream. But I will discount any thoughts I have on the matter now I know it's on my radar.
I think for followup I'll be pretty general. Ask how he's doing. I've done enough prying lately into his real life and if he's worried for himself, I don't want him to have to worry about my reactions. He can say more if he wants to. I might mention the names, and reiterate that I don't want any of them, I want him. And that I'm willing to do what it takes to maintain my connection to him. I want the fates to know that the names don't mean I think I don't need him.
Those people will never be ok, because they aren't him.
My husband said I should put the list in my safety deposit box with our wills, because obviously the safe deposit box walls are built to protect things from the fates.
My husband's pretty cool. :)
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