Posted by workinprogress on October 8, 2008, at 0:30:00
In reply to Re: I finally feel good about loving my T...., posted by FindingMyDesire on October 7, 2008, at 23:16:12
Thanks for all for the affirmation. Mostly I just know how hard it was when I felt so weird/icky about feeling so strongly. And I've seen some of that from others in recent threads (JayMac I think and Finding My Desire). All that you both wrote (and others who have talked about transference and mother feelings, etc) helped me not feel so alone/freaky. And I think it helped me get here a bit too. Get to that place of comfort.
I don't know that I'm here absolutely and for good. But I definitely got over a hurdle. And I think it's just part of the process, at least for me it was. Finding... you'll get there too and I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you are finding support somewhere in the absence of your T. Make sure to treat yourself extra kindly!
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