Re: I finally feel good about loving my T....

Posted by JayJ on October 7, 2008, at 9:06:34

In reply to Re: I finally feel good about loving my T.... » JouezMoi, posted by sassyfrancesca on October 7, 2008, at 8:48:23

Hi Sassy,
You are of course right that feelings are feelings and that's it. The problem is that our job as clients is to make sure we tell our Ts about our feelings, whereas their job is to _only_ express their feelings to the extent it is to our benefit. These are two very different jobs about dealing with feelings and I guess that's where the difficulty come in. The imbalance in the relationship is the issue, like with Suedehead's situation.
JayJ

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