Posted by rskontos on October 7, 2008, at 16:16:42
In reply to I miss my T, posted by lemonaide on October 7, 2008, at 14:56:37
lemonaide,
i had written a long answer and somehow it got lost to cyberspace. so i am having to rewrite. i basically said the same as lucie lu. new relationships with t's take time. think back to your relationship with your old t in the beginning. and what you might say to a client yourself if you were a t. new relationships of any kind take time and yet you have a chance to try a new one and a chance to take your healing to a new level because with each new relationship we heal a little bit more don't we? can't we? i like to think so. i believe you need to give this therapist a little more time and a chance for you to see if you can trust her. i think each time we can learn to trust a new person is a chance for our soul to heal a bit. just my humble opinion.
it is ok to have mixed feelings. you started back to school, changed t's, lost your old one that represented safe space to you and a known trustworthy friend, as well as started an interinship all this is new and unchartered territory. You need to take baby steps, and give yourself some time to take all this in. But you can do this.(((((((Lemonaide))))))))
i think i said it better the first time, but this will have to do.rsk
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