Posted by JayMac on October 4, 2008, at 18:58:41
In reply to Re: Do you know where your T....? » JayMac, posted by DAisym on October 4, 2008, at 18:35:41
I think it's great proof! She is genuinely sweet, warm, and affectionate. It's interesting: she has hugged me once (it was completely spontaneous, it was when I told her that I got into graduate school, and she opened her arms and hugged me for, what seemed like, a long time). Although, she has not hugged me since, I can definitely *feel* like she is hugging me when I'm on her couch or when she's seeing me to the door.
This may sound weird, and don't it weirdly, but one time while I was sobbing and unable to speak more than 2 words at time, I could hear her in the background gently caressing something. I don't know what the "something" was exactly, but, I felt that she was soothing me. I have no idea if she was even aware of her caressing! Nevertheless, it had an impact on me. I love the unconscious mind.
I'm 100% sure if she weren't my T and I wasn't her patient, that she would have hugged me the same way she would hug a grieving child. This may sound crazy, weird, or unreal, but it was more real than I can express. I could really feel that she was *feeling* with me.
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