Posted by JayJ on October 3, 2008, at 10:04:06
In reply to T's on vacation and I'm hating my attachment!, posted by FindingMyDesire on October 2, 2008, at 23:21:54
Wow! You have a lot on your plate right now. I feel freaked-out for you. I'm suprised you are as coherent as you are - I would be a complete basket case. If you just had one miscarriage and are likely to have another, those losses must be causing enormous ructions inside. The temporary loss of your T just adds to that. I'm not meaning to be at all negative, but your relationship with your partner sounds as if it may not always have been as supportive as it might. I can understand you having an intense yearning for someone who knows you completely and can care for you at all levels. I hope she is back soon and that you can find someway to address some of these issues with her. I know from my own experience it's really difficult to talk about these things when sex is involved (in my case virtually impossible). I'm sure they fully understand the significance of the sex issues and the symbolism that can be involved. I also know it is impossible for me to get the words out except in the most round about terms, but hopefully you will be better at it. I know I will need to get there eventually myself.I hope things start to improve for you soon. Be as self-caring as you can. Look after you.
JayJ
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