Posted by sassyfrancesca on September 18, 2008, at 13:56:07
In reply to Re: T Touching Himself, posted by Nadezda on September 18, 2008, at 13:23:16
> Hi, Sassyfrancesca.
(Hi, Nadezda))): Most of my friends are married...you know how that is, and they don't live close.
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> Could I ask why your friends can't go out? Can they talk on the phone? I spend tons of time talking on the phone; it is my life-saver, a way of staying connected.Lots of people find that even talking on the phone creates a sense of companionship-- or chatting online through gmail or yahoo, or one of the many chatlines.
I am a member of 2 other support groups AND a dating website.
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> I do wonder, though, if you couldn't find activities to do in the evening-- aren't there classes-- even very lowcost or free ones,-- in your area?I returned to college (where I work) last year, but haven't taken a class this semester...if I flunk, I have to pay 1,000 dollars back, so am waiting a bit to see if I can get a higher paying job; I had an interview last week.
Where I live is a bit unusual, but still there may be free reading groups and poetry-writing groups. Or you could start your own group-- reading or poetry-writing.
That is an EXCELLENT suggestion; perhaps I will start my OWN poetry group. Thankyou!
There are so many people, I'd bet, who would love to find a good place to work on their writing.
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> If you do enjoy people's company, I'm sure there have to be ways of moving toward having more of that..
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> It does seem that having only one person whom you can depend on creates an awfully difficult situation for you. Absolutely.Hugs, Sassy...and thankyou!
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> Nadezda
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