Posted by rskontos on August 29, 2008, at 17:10:35
In reply to Re: I'm Going to Turn Myself In, posted by Just Me33 on August 29, 2008, at 15:11:33
Susan, this is just my take on it. I don't know the whole story and like Ladybug my memory aint' what it used to be, but I think it takes two to tango.
I don't think in any case the therapee is to blame. You are acting like you are wholly to blame for your therapy going south. As the professional I think your T needed to know when to stop things from getting out of hand. He needed to say whoa nelly not you.
I think and this is just my humble opinion, that you are being way way way too hard on yourself. I mean in a sense you are saying that you went to therapy messed up in your marriage and you found comfort and somehow you should have know how to filter that. I don't think so. He the T needed to recognize prior to things going South that things were going down a bad path.
I think you need a break from this kind of thinking.
Just my 2 cents.
rsk
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