Posted by stellabystarlight on August 25, 2008, at 12:45:48
In reply to Re: Sharing food with your therapist..., posted by lemonaide on August 24, 2008, at 18:20:48
Hi Lemonaide,
Spitting pizza on him with mushroom stuck in your teeth...LOL! Definitely not an attractive visual. This would have put a damper on any fantasies he might have about you. lol. I would have also declined his gracious offer!
I hadn't thought about the strawberries and whipped cream...not a bad idea...so much you could do with that...LOL!
I wonder what he'd do if I took such a suggestive food item to therapy? It's tempting to test him, but I better just keep it to fantasy. We're in such a good place right now - trust, caring, and understanding is steadily growing between us. I feel like he really likes me... Gosh, I hope I don't mess it up. I have a very challenging month coming up here soon with current life issues. I'm going to really need his help!
I'm starting to see that the food sharing hasn't become a problem, because I only do it occasionally - unconsciously protecting this intense bonding "ritual" from having to give it up. Full of meaning...sigh...another thing to dissect in therapy.
Thanks for your reply.
Stellabystarlight
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