Posted by Amanda29 on August 16, 2008, at 13:16:27
In reply to Re: I am so confused and scared., posted by antigua3 on August 16, 2008, at 13:02:48
I agree with dealing with the issues with him...over and over until it is resolved somewhat...but, in my previous relationship with my therapist, they didnt want to deal with it and it got severe, but with them not helping me to deal with it, I got worse and it was all I could focus on because IT WAS THE ISSUE AT HAND. But, I didnt get passed it because I didnt know how.
My T now has set boundaries with me and it is up to me to follow them, but that is so hard for me bcause I have never been able to handle boundaries. But it is good that they are there.
I was thinking of having him help me to move forward by starting the session asking me questions...OTHER THAN THAT OF MY TRANSFERENCE...so that I can move away from those issues.
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