Posted by fleeting flutterby on August 14, 2008, at 14:06:50
In reply to just a thought, posted by no_rose_garden on August 12, 2008, at 13:15:50
> Therapy is a totally different kind of relationship. It's so close, but you're not "allowed" to know anything about the other person. That's really not the way human nature works, i think. Also, not being allowed to know something makes it even more appealing to know...when somebody tells you not to do something....even when we're little...we really want to do it.
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> ...just a thought...<<
---- been thinking about this. I think you make some very good points.I think though it might be more FEMALE human nature that struggles with this than males do(not that I mean to make this a gender issue-- but afterall men and women do deal with relationships differently).
I've often wondered why most posts about "attachment", "obession" or whatever one wants to call it-- with the therapist, is almost always written by a female.
I wonder if there's ever been a consideration of administering therapy in regards to "female nature" and "male nature" --types of developing with the therapist/client relationship??
Would therapy as we know it NOT even exist and be totally different if women would have been the founders of it? I wonder........
flutterby-mandy
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