Posted by rskontos on July 3, 2008, at 12:54:48
In reply to Re: I have a problem in therapy... » star008, posted by Lucie Lu on July 1, 2008, at 23:12:02
LucieLu,
I know for myself I was obsessed with diagnosis for a while and still I questioned it until I read a book recently and saw too much of myself in three of the cases. At least my younger and some of today's self. I guess it is just the nature of human's to what to know why when something feels wrong what it is exactly. For me, I know i have to know why and to read helps. Triggery sometimes but overall it is a must. And my t accepts my quest for knowledge. He doesn't take it as I don't believe in his abilities just that i need more to own my own recovery or to at least take an active role. Just like when my flashbacks got too much to take I shut them down. He allowed me to decide. I silly enough have a new theory of my own DX to discuss with him. He will tolerate it I believe but it is for my own internal voices I believe. So he listens. Which isn't that ultimately sometimes is what was missing someone early on that listened, supported and believed in us?
I have written 4 previous posts to you. I just had a problem getting my thoughts together. They still aren't right but anyway, here it is.
rsk
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