Posted by Dinah on June 19, 2008, at 17:14:55
In reply to Re: T advocates ending my relationship » Dinah, posted by Tabitha on June 19, 2008, at 13:15:54
> But last night my little girl felt relieved and hopeful at the idea of exiting the relationship. She hasn't felt hopeful about being in the relationship for a long time.
Well, that says it all, doesn't it? The mind can argue one way or the other, and construct all sorts of rationales. But the reaction you feel when you reach a "decision" is a pretty accurate reflection of what you're really feeling. I am sometimes astonished by my reactions to things I thought I understood. And I've advocated the "decision" method of decision making to my son, who is not overly fond of final decisions.
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