Posted by Annierose on June 19, 2008, at 6:30:53
In reply to T advocates ending my relationship, posted by Tabitha on June 19, 2008, at 1:42:09
In general I do think therapists do not tell their clients what to do ... even if asked directly. Rather, they tend to ask questions to help you figure out what is best for you.
It does take several dates before you get to know someone. The first few weeks, both parties tend to be on their best behavior, lots of agreeing on both sides. The more we get to know someone, the more connected we begin to feel, our truer selves revealed themselves.
Just the fact that you asked your t earlier in the relationship, "Should I stay or go?" indicates on some level you knew this wasn't the right guy for you.
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