Posted by Daisym on June 18, 2008, at 14:30:26
In reply to Re: Daisym's comment made me think » Daisym, posted by rskontos on June 18, 2008, at 11:38:38
Accepting who are parents are, or were, is easier for the adult parts than for the wounded child inside. No matter what the reasons, that child didn't get what she needed. And it is a very sad, very hard place to revisit.
I think it is Annie Rogers who writes about generational grief in her book "Unsayable" This is full of CSA triggers so be careful with it. But she talks about how trauma can be handed down and not just because it is repeated.
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