Posted by rskontos on June 17, 2008, at 15:55:19
In reply to Re: Daisym's comment ***neglect triggers***, posted by Happyflower on June 17, 2008, at 12:27:47
It is funny, Hf, your mother was a slob and mine was the opposite. She was a cleaning fool. She was OCD when it came to cleaning and we were her little tin soldiers. And we better do it right or we had to do it over and over again. We had to clean our little bitty house EVERY day. That is cleaning the bathroom, the bedrooms, the kitchen everything, vacuuming, dusting, etc every day over and over until it was perfect. And on Saturday before we were allowed to leave the house from the time we were little bitty kids. I don't remember how young since I dissociated thing. But I know we did it, I just don't remember. We cleaned the kitchen every single night. She cooked we cleaned until we were old enough to cook too. And on top of that she had a maid that came in twice a week to help!!! What the heck did she do, well she ironed everything in that house. Sheets, towels, clothes, you name it was ironed.
Yep, you could have eaten off our floor. No germs allowed.
But we were neglected all the same, excepted for being yelled at to do something. Does that count? Do you think.
No wonder I hate housework to this day.
rsk
I am sorry for how bad your mom was, I know how badly she treated you and still does.
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