Posted by rskontos on May 20, 2008, at 11:48:48
In reply to Re: Went to end therapy but he talked me out of-lo » rskontos, posted by B2chica on May 20, 2008, at 10:28:05
Thanks B2c, this means alot to me too, yes raisinb's point about two people was right, and I do mean to call him on it. He said maybe it was his face's configuration or his expressions, and I do mean to call him on it. He said I am not ever boring I am anything but. I was not really wanting to go on Thursday when my h goes, do i gotta go. I guess I better clarify with him if I am suppose to go. I was assuming he and my h would meet alone. I guess I better not assume you know what happens when you do that.
That being said, has anyone else's H met their t's and if so did they or did they not attend. I don't really fancy being there. It is like people talking about you in front of you, kinda of uncomfortable thing to me.
I am not sure if I am comfortable about my H knowing but him not knowing sure is hard too. Lately I want to abandon ship with my H because I can't take the dual life much longer. You know the playing I am ok, but I am not thing.
T thinks he needs to know so he won't assume I can just snap my fingers be all better.
Yeah he is a hard nut to crack I think I will bring that up too since we are putting all our cards out on the table.
I think I need to print these responses so I don't forget. My memory is so bad these days. I think I purposefully make it so sometimes.
thanks, I do have a plan b therapists office in mind, they have several therapists both p-docs, phd's, counselors of all kinds. A clinic started by one p-doc that my neuro recommended.
I might try there to see if one of them there might be a fit. But that too feels me with anxiety.
oh the web of therapy.
rsk
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