Posted by muffled on May 1, 2008, at 22:50:25
In reply to Re: Mebbe I switch T's » muffled, posted by LadyBug on April 30, 2008, at 19:03:08
> You are brave Muffled. I understand if things aren't working with your current T and you want to move on it is certainly your choice.
*Not so brave...beleive me! But frustrated, cuz i know I goto change, and I don't wanto, but I goto or I think it will get nasty cuz there has to be a change and we both know it. T trying to be so gentle hinting to me eg "I won't be the slightest bit hurt if you want to go to the other T", "I can't meet all your T needs" etc etc
> I'm with rsk, I'm thinking about being done with therapy all together.
*maybe done, maybe done for now, maybe time for a change....
> But I know I have to see my T again for whatever comes next. Closure? For my sake, not hers. I'm mixed up too.*sigh, not so easy, specially when its been a long time, the rut is deep then, the connection long...
Yeah, reckon closure is good. Better to end on a resolved note, or if not end, then pause...
If you still need T, a new T could offer a fresh perpective. Proly a good thing.> I wish you well in your decision. I trust that you will do what's best for yourself just as I will.
* I I try whats best. Hope you can to LB, you been thru some tough times, but you show strength.
Take good care,
M
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