Posted by raisinb on April 7, 2008, at 13:28:38
In reply to Re: hard for me to hear » sunnydays, posted by Dinah on April 7, 2008, at 9:17:02
I think subjecting our deepest, darkest fantasies to examination is one of the most helpful things we can do. But it's sooo hard, because those fantasies are often what sustains us emotionally in the first place. Analyzing them on our own, or telling our therapists what they are, are the first steps in admitting they won't come true. And that's tough.
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