Posted by Happyflower on April 7, 2008, at 10:48:50
In reply to Something hard to talk about, posted by Dinah on April 7, 2008, at 9:49:08
Hi Dinah,
I just would like to say who wouldn't be jealous of a marriage partner in therapy?
Maybe your DH wishes he could provide for you what your T does, but he can't for some reason. You have been with your T a long time and that could make him feel a little jealous of him. I think spouse of T's are feeling a little jealous too, because I am sure they don't get that at home from them much.
Maybe the gift thing is what is doing it. I know with friends we don't celebrate a anniversary like that usually. Usually anniversaries are for couples to buy gift for. I see nothing wrong with you buying your T a gift, but maybe your husband is feeling insecure or something. Who knows?
If I somehow figure out your DH, can you do the same for me? lol
((((Dinah)))) Sorry stuff is so hard right now.
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