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Re: Homework » Daisym

Posted by fleeting flutterby on March 30, 2008, at 20:34:45

In reply to Homework, posted by Daisym on March 30, 2008, at 0:30:57

Dear Dinah,

I'm sorry you have struggled so. :o(

I wish for you - you see that it's not that you weren't worth portecting but that your mother didn't have it in her to do so. that its NOT you -- its' her.

After certain abuse(went through several different situations) I recall trying to talk to my mother and being "pushed away" -so to speak. Though, in my case, my mother also abused me and.... her daycare kids-- horrific physical abuse... so by the time I was about 7 years old, I knew she was NOT a safe place to run to. To this day she is NEVER in the wrong.... so I don't confront her about any past things anymore. (I know *I* will be the wrong one, time and time again-- she will tell me I'm wrong) I could never go on a vacation with my mother-- I commend you for that and hope all goes well with it.

I have been working on my own inner self. Trying to convince myself that I was, and am, worth being here-- no matter what my past is telling me.

I wish you the best in your homework and therapy.

fl.flutterby

 

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