Posted by rskontos on February 23, 2008, at 23:21:54
In reply to New office, posted by Dinah on February 23, 2008, at 21:59:56
Dinah, I think I know how you feel. I often do that same thing. In a moment of generosity you offer something you feel at the moment, but now that you have had time to think about, it feels different. You wish now you had not been so quick to offer. And so you now resent the office because that is easier than to resent him or yourself. I know that feeling because usually I end up being upset with my self and talking bad to me. Oh someone in my head does :(. But give yourself some space. You might find in time, the trip has it good points. It might not be so bad, maybe there are some better shops over there you can save up to visit while in that area. I don't know. Or you can dig your heels and resist. There is always a certain satisfaction in that too I have found. LOL sometimes doing the right thing, being an adult and acting right are sorely overrated ? :( LOL I will support no matter your choice.... you've got a friend. :)
rsk
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