Posted by MissK on February 13, 2008, at 18:54:20
In reply to Re: Should I call or just wait the 2 weeks?)))miss, posted by krycek on February 13, 2008, at 15:58:07
>Throw on top of it 15 minutes of the 45 minute session was about how the dynamtics of his office was bothering him, and he feels like his collegues do not agree with his technique.
He shouldn't be bringing this up in session. It is your time there, not his to ponder office politics and whatever else.
>I left the office confused and sad. I am still feeling confused and sad. This is not how I usually feel after therapy...
Sounds like he was having a real bad 'off day'. I guess it happens. I have not experienced what you describe from my T in the almost two years I have been seeing her.
>Do I suck up the hurt and confusion of this past session for two weeks or do I ask to see if I can get into to see him in the next week? I can't get over the change in his attitude and tactics of last night's session.
Tough call. If it's happened only this once, then maybe wait and tell him next session all that bothered you in a calm way. At the moment you may be too emotional to talk and think about it calmly.
>Ack!
Yes. I don't know what was going on with him for him to be so different. Hopefully he will be able to tell you when you do speak to him. Whether you call right away for another appointment or wait until the next scheduled one, give yourself a little time to think calmly what you want to say and what you want to know.
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