Posted by krycek on February 13, 2008, at 15:58:07
In reply to Re: Should I call or just wait the 2 weeks? » krycek, posted by MissK on February 13, 2008, at 15:17:17
> >Do I just suck it up
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> Suck what up? His misinterpretation of how you are feeling?
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> What would you say to him if you did call?
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> It is not clear to me what exactly is bothering you about what he said, or how it was you were telling him of positive changes and signing up for a class and he responded he thinks you are depressed the way he did? Something seems missing to me.
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> If he did make a bad assumption or interpretation on your state of mind and feelings, then I wouldn't need see a need to call. I would just open up the next session telling him where he was wrong and clarify what it is I wanted him to understand.
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>Do I suck up the hurt and confusion of this past session for two weeks or do I ask to see if I can get into to see him in the next week? I can't get over the change in his attitude and tactics of last night's session. Usually he is much more gentle with his assertions, and this time he was overly critical of everything I said. Throw on top of it 15 minutes of the 45 minute session was about how the dynamtics of his office was bothering him, and he feels like his collegues do not agree with his technique.
I left the office confused and sad. I am still feeling confused and sad. This is not how I usually feel after therapy...
Ack!
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