Posted by rskontos on February 12, 2008, at 9:37:24
In reply to Re: Not rejected by therapist anymore!, posted by sassyfrancesca on February 12, 2008, at 8:42:20
Francesca, I think you need to begin a new thread so we save widget's here must i feel i must respond to you based on something my therapist said to me. He said the boundaries on therapy were his to set. He said that he must make the trust in the relationship be there because he makes it safe to be there by setting all the boundaries and never crossing them. I, sadly, believe your t, crossed them and it is not a good thing. It has you caught in a web. You can not leave and you should not stay. What he said about "if I was not married...." if you say that in any business, say boss to employee situation well that is sexual harrassment. This is not good. I know you feel deeply for this therapist. But it is not the kind that will take you beyond the theraputic relationship in the realm of healing and being able to form healthy relationship with say other men. I think it locks you in with him and that I don't see as good for you. JMHO I may be way off base and if so, I humbly apologize. I just hate to see you hurting. And I don't want to hurt you further. I hope I did not do that.
Now for you widget I am THRILLED. I am glad you spoke up for yourself. You did yourself and your therapist a great big step forward by doing so. Way to take control...rsk
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