Posted by sassyfrancesca on February 12, 2008, at 8:42:20
In reply to Not rejected by therapist anymore!, posted by widget on February 11, 2008, at 16:57:44
(((Widget))): I am so glad! I am going to respond to the last message you sent me from ("Still in Love with my T After 5 Years); can't find the post...you asked how do I (we) NOT have an intimate relationship? I wish I knew; my t said "we are both very restrained people." it is excruciating for me; The chemistry is on "kill" between us. He said: "My colleagues would tell me to run fast and far, but I will never abandon you."
He is going to Hawaii for a convention (so am I); that could prove interesting. He says he doesn't want to hurt me, but he has tempted, teased and tormented me.....He has also said: "You are in my heart and in my head." "If I were not married, I would probably go for it." He even gave me a ride home one night, and we sat listening to Yanni on his radio; it was heavenly....the next week he told me that that presented an "ethical dilemna"---he is all over the place......He said he was "torn, confused, scared and conflicted." Geeshhh, what do i do with THAT!? He is taking me along on HIS journey/ride........So glad to hear from you and that things worked out with your therapist.
Hugs, Francesca
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