Posted by llurpsienoodle on January 21, 2008, at 12:45:20
In reply to Re: Really, I just want to tell her to ..., posted by Phillipa on January 21, 2008, at 12:20:49
muffled, why not go to the session, tell her you don't want to be there and tell her to
@#$% off? See what happens. A unique test of the therapeutic alliance.Or you can follow the more sensible suggestions offered above (grin)
Well, you have strong feelings, and you're entitled to them. Now you just gotta figure out where they're coming from. Do they build over time or attack from nowhere? Is there a trigger, or a set of circumstances?
Some of us are hypervigilant. I consider it a gift and a burden. I can detect slight fluctuations in voice tone and body posture that gives me anxiety and makes me think the other person is angry, scared, etc. I wonder if you're picking up on subtle cues that your T is not 100% in the room with you- preoccupied, or at least overoccupied?
now I go pet kitty-Ll
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