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Re: thanks Joni

Posted by JoniS on January 16, 2008, at 23:25:54

In reply to Re: thanks Joni » JoniS, posted by muffled on January 16, 2008, at 21:54:02

Muff said:
...I am frustrated...

sorry you are frustrated. I recommend physical activiy (sound familiar? you always rec it, and I agree it helps!) also, sleep on it a day or so and I bet it will pass

Muff said:
So remind me, when does your T return?

Me: March 31 only 68 more days ... piece of cake! 30 down, 68 to go...

Muff:
Have you had any contact? Did you send him an email?

Me: No email, but he texted me last week to say thanks for the book. I sent him a book (amazon) on therapist self care. I wasn't looking for it, it was recommended - I guess the amazon computer thinks I'm a T from all the T books I order - trying to figure out my T... he he he ROFL
in a way I was disappointed to get text because it hints at "no reply needed" I see it as an overt communication saying he didn't want to hear back from me

but - then, he called Monday, strange coincidence cause I had just left a message with his part time colleague who's sort of standing in for him. I was so down, depressed and crying so much I had to take a zanex. Anyway, my T called but it was not related to me leaving a message with other T, he was calling to ask me an accounting question. we very briefly chatted, my zanex had me calmed down pretty good by then, but it was sooo good to hear his voice. That gave me a lift for a day or two.

Muff:
Are you hanging in there ok? Is it getting ANY easier? Even a tiny bit at times? Are you keeping busy? Or trying to?
Nosey aren't I???? :-o !!!
Just you seem nice Joni and I wish you well.

awh....:-)

I'm hanging in. yes, it gets a tiny (emphasis on TINY) bit easier at times, but the deep sorrow rears its ugly head every day or two. Staying busy helps lots.

I'm having some stupid thoughts lately that he wont come back, and that I suffocate him with my dependency,... blah blah blah ... I have to work at getting those thoughts/worries out of my head.

Thanks for caring Muff!

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