Posted by annierose on January 8, 2008, at 20:41:33
In reply to AnnieR how goes it? (nm) » annierose, posted by muffled on January 8, 2008, at 11:56:04
I'm not feeling as edgy - more sad - not sure if that is progress.
I have been able to explore this with my therapist. We have been working very hard on our style of communicating with each other.
Plus my sister has decided she wants nothing to do with any of her siblings (and that includes me) even though I was once the only person she would confide in. This is so upsetting to me. I can't even call her as she won't accept my phone calls. Yes, I could write. But I want to wait for some time to pass. She is obviously in a great deal of emotional pain (too long of a story) and it has nothing to do with me. So why is she eliminating me from her life?
In therapy today, my t reminded me that she was my "friend" (meaning - in my camp) and that I need to trust her and trust her feelings towards me are positive. Instead, I work really hard to examine everything she says to make sure every context is 100% perfect. If one word could be taken differently, then I go with that meaning. Yep, that sounds right.
Aren't you glad you asked?
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