Posted by star008 on January 4, 2008, at 14:57:13
In reply to sexual element of 'transference' with therapist, posted by widget on January 4, 2008, at 9:05:57
I struggled with the "love" thing but never felt sexual towards my T. Now that we have been together so long i do love him but it is different.. And the thought of being sexual with him is just yuck.. kind of like feeling sexual about a parental figure or a family member.. i nver had the nerve to discuss the love part part with him, so I have to praise you for your courage. They are just people so I can see why he would be uncomfortable about the sexual part.. You can try to address it or just let it go.. It will pass in time but might take a long while.. It will probably get in the way of therapy though..
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