Posted by muffled on December 17, 2007, at 22:05:58
In reply to What kind of T relationship helps the most?, posted by twinleaf on December 13, 2007, at 21:29:30
FASCINATING questions Twinleaf!!!
But I reckon there's as many answers as there are types of people.
And then I would guess while T's tend toward a certain 'style' perhaps within their techniques, I also think they modulate and 'do therapy' as they go along to fit the clients best interests.
I thinbk the very best thing my T has done is stick with me and be unfailingly kind. Hard though I find this.
We also have an agreement that is extreemly important to me, in that we both need to be HONEST as we can. She NEEDS to be honest or how can I trust her and not second guess her.
So I would say our T relationship has had a sameness at times, a repetative cycle of needyness and not so needyness,and yet ongoingling changing and growing.
Its not been perfect, and that comforts me too.
Therapy.
I dunno....
M
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