Posted by star008 on December 10, 2007, at 21:23:26
In reply to Re: Maybe counter resistance, posted by john79 on December 10, 2007, at 12:06:11
JOhn..
I don't agree totally with other posts.. I don't get the impression she isn't there for you.. I do think that you are right and that if the therapy is going this way that it is probably her fault.
I do get the impression that she is very new and doesn't have the experience to deal with things.. She might be sending you mixed messages.. I don't know since I am just imagining.Waht I do agree with is that you will be wasting both time and money by continuing with her. You will be to obessed with what is going on with her to deal with the stuff you went there for to begin with. I understand not wanting to leave.. It may be hard for you but in the end you will see what you need to do.
Is there a prt of you that likes the diversion from dealing with your own stuff?? If something keeps coming up to get in the way then you will never address what you went there for.. good luck.. please listen to those of us who have been there.. I know it is hard but you can learn thru the pain of others before you get burned yourself.. good luck John.. best wishes, (really)
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