Posted by TherapyGirl on December 2, 2007, at 19:44:31
In reply to Re: Send good thoughts my way, please, posted by Daisym on December 2, 2007, at 0:43:28
Daisy, I always love to hear your take on things. Unresolved is a good way to put it. And one of the things that has been very difficult for me is to watch the effort that Ex puts into this new relationship that was NEVER put in for me. Part of that is because we were friends for so long before we were together. But it's very, very hard to watch.
The good thoughts from you and the other Babblers worked, though. Little man and I had an awesome day (details in the post to Muffled above). And now I have confidence that I won't completely freak out every time this happens. It's so hard when there are kids involved, though. Especially in this case, when I have no legal right to the kid in question. But I think it will turn out okay. I just have some "inner work" to do, as my T puts it.
Unresolved but not devastating. That's how I'm going to think of it from now on.
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