Posted by Daisym on December 2, 2007, at 0:43:28
In reply to Re: Send good thoughts my way, please, posted by I need a hug on December 1, 2007, at 23:41:40
I'm sending you lots of good thoughts. I hope your day tomorrow is fun and easy.
I think you get turned upside down still because there is a huge protective response going on for you - understandably so. It would be for me too. So many questions and then together and then not, you are part of your guy's life intensely and then not again.
And I have no idea if this fits or not, but the reason my ex can tear me up is because I still want to "prove" my side of our break up - and he lives in a different world. He'll never understand things from my perspective and he'll never agree to disagree with me. And I compare myself to others - especially his new girlfriend. That is so hard, as much as I know I shouldn't.
So maybe not emeshed but rather unresolved? I hope you get the support you need from your therapist. Let her help you.
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