Posted by Muffled on November 30, 2007, at 11:49:30
In reply to More Depressed Than Usual, posted by Poet on November 30, 2007, at 9:50:50
Poet, be extra gentle on your self.
Your a good person. This whole therapy and figgering stuff out about ourselves and why we do what we do, and how to work around our weaknessness and build on our strengths, hell, even to alloww ourselves to be weak....sigh...its alot of work.
The upcomming next 4-5 weeks are traditionally tough for a great many people....
Are you guys quite destitiute or are you able to have a decent place to live? maybe a toy or two? some perks like having a meal out or fancy coffee now and again?
Maybe spending some time enjoying what you DO have might be useful? More money does not equal happiness....
But I am one to talk! I am VERY fortunate that I was just born not really caring for 'stuff' I think, its a HUGE blessing. Its ALOT less pressure. I have a friend who lives in an affluent area and manoman, they goto have the 'right' clothes, their lawn has to be just so, they goto have a certain car, etc etc. NOT my thing! But some enjoy such I guess. Thats what makes the world interesting I guess. All the diff people.
OH heck, I seem to be RAMBLING!!!! sorry Poet. I am all discombobulated, I nave moments of cleverness, but apparently this ISN'T one of them!
But I care bout you Poet. Always love to see your name here and read your posts. So I guess i'm just trying to be a friend in my own, sometimes rather dumb way.
((Poet))
M
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