Posted by Daisym on November 19, 2007, at 23:26:04
In reply to A healing experience for me***birth exp trigger***, posted by antigua3 on November 10, 2007, at 10:13:52
Antigua,
My heart hurts for your loss but I am humbled by your tenancity to heal. I know the surgery wasn't fun, but it seems like it carried this whole other subtext to it. What a huge leap - to be able to separate two events that must have been linked up in your mind for a very long time.
The grief we carry with us can be the cloud that covers everything. I hope that you can complete this grieving process and it becomes a sad, tender spot in your heart, but one that no longer haunts you and feels incomplete. Do you plan to have a private ceremony - perhaps to name? And even though you say you need to let go, I think perhaps you need to tuck your love for this baby away in your heart instead.
Thank you for sharing.
poster:Daisym
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