Posted by Phillipa on November 10, 2007, at 20:49:01
In reply to A healing experience for me***birth exp trigger***, posted by antigua3 on November 10, 2007, at 10:13:52
I can relate completely to you as I do have three children grown now but between two and three (please don't judge me extenuating circumstances no not cheating but a failing marriage) so I had an abortion marriage survived and I had a fourth pregnancy after it. I had wanted another Son so badly but this fourth was a girl. To this day I feel the third the aborted on was a boy and I grieve that thought but if I'd had that baby I would not have my Daughter. Tubes tied then. Was only 27. But I related completly in my own way. Funny having female surgery in January quite extensive wonder if it will bring back the memory of the child I never had? Never thought of that til I read what you wrote. Guess better discuss it with my therapist first. Thanks Phillipa
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