Posted by rskontos on November 6, 2007, at 9:15:25
In reply to Re: Blindsided this weekend,,arora.... » rskontos, posted by Dinah on November 6, 2007, at 9:00:20
Dinah, thank you so much. I needed that because I was blaming how I feel on not being able to handle them when in fact from the beginning they have not given me a chance. We had "shot gun" wedding and they haven't let me forget it even 20 years later. I really don't like them the truth of the matter. And what my H did was tell me he was bringing them back from his sister's and then say Is that ok? Which isn't really a real question it is after the fact! And he did it in front of the kids so that I really couldn't say much. I would suffer through their visit because he has a right to his parents coming but not on the heels of my father when I just found out distrubing information about him and I am not sure how I feel. It will mean company for about 3 weeks solid with no break. Nobody wants that. HIs family nor mine really helps, it is like I am the diner--all three meals. He still doesn't get it about how he blindsided me. But thanks for the not blaming my emotional condition. I really needed that!!!!!!!!! You are my angel for reminding me not to blame everything on that. Thanks so much
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