Posted by Muffled on November 5, 2007, at 15:29:31
In reply to Blindsided this weekend,,dreading thanksgiving...., posted by rskontos on November 5, 2007, at 15:01:20
(((RK)))
What does your T say to all this?
Can you try to be out of the house as much as possible?
Can you give yourself permission to 'switch' as needed to protect yourself? Who cares what the inlaws think? They'll be leaving....hopefully soon.
How do your kids do with the inlaws?
Is your hubby going to be away the whole time???
If so then why is he bringing them up?
To watch you?
Does he undertsand that it DOESN'T help?
Can you just leave for that time period? Go for a holiday? Stay with friends? Your kids are old enuf they should be OK on their own, or with the inlaws if they OK w/them.
I dunno what to suggest thats reasonable as I dunno all the dynamics involved.
I think it might be best to ask your T what they think would be your best plan of action on this.
Its a shmae for you to have to go thru with this if its so unhappy for you.
Keep in touch.
M
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